Honoring Michael Montez: Bartender, Father and Friend

– In Tribute to Michael Montez –

The world feels a little dimmer with the sudden passing of our dear friend and colleague, Michael Montez.

A beacon of light, Michael touched the lives of everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. He leaves behind his beloved fiancé, Alex, and two beautiful children, Jeremiah and Eva, who were the center of his world.

Michael was more than just a friend; he was a pillar of community and kindness. His warmth and generosity were unmatched, making anyone in his presence feel at home. Michael welcomed everyone with open arms and was always ready to lend a helping hand, often going above and beyond to support others. Those who crossed paths with him walked away better, inspired by his genuine spirit and unwavering dedication.

In the professional realm, Michael was a shining star. An active member of the Chilled 100, he held numerous esteemed roles including President of the Orange County USBG, West Coast NCC representative for the USBG National, and SoCal Cultural Ambassador for Bulleit Frontier Whiskey. His commitment to the hospitality industry was evident through his participation in events like Varsity of PDXCW, Bar 5-day alumni, Camp Runamuk Squirrel, Tiki by the Sea, and Behind the Barrel.

Here are some heartfelt words from his friends, capturing the essence of who Michael was: 

“If you had the privilege to meet @mr.bartender_mm, you knew of his love for his family, the importance of friendship, and a passion for hospitality. He’d be the first to offer help, the last to leave until a job was done, always with that big smile. Humble and genuine, polite and thoughtful, now it’s our time to be there for his kids and beautiful lady Alex.” — Michele Colomb

“Michael’s passion, motivation, and inspiration has created him to be a rising star within our industry. He has touched many people with his heart and leadership. Seeing how fast he has achieved so much has made me proud that has been our president. I was excited to see where he would go and where he would take our chapter. But Michael’s true power was his bond with his fiancée Alex who helped push him forward in every accomplishment that he attained.” — Amin Benny

“Mike was a wonderful soul and had the best smile. He was kind, funny, always upbeat, and cared deeply about his industry. He was serving as president of our USBG Orange County chapter and always volunteered at Tales of the Cocktail’s SpeedRack. He was a loving partner, father, and a friend. I am in shock and disbelief. You will be truly missed. A Fernet toast to you, my friend, @mr.bartender_mm.” — Nicole Cooke

“Mike was the first friend I made when I started traveling for industry events. Even though I knew no one, he made sure I never felt left out, and it was like I was part of the crew the whole time. During Tales, he even walked with me after the Fernet after-party at Coyote Ugly ended and made sure I got back to my hotel safe, which was in the opposite direction of his hotel. He loved his Fernet, but he loved people more.” — Danny Posey

“Reflecting on Michael’s time with us, I recall a day during his onboarding at the distilleries with a smile. As we sampled our whiskey, Michael described it as “phenomenal.” That word seemed to resonate with him because when he tasted our second whiskey, he used “phenomenal” again. From that moment, it became the word of the day. Everything we discussed, even at dinner, was “phenomenal,” and we laughed heartily about it. It turned into our little inside joke, a memory that still brings warmth and joy.” — Bobby Burke

Even after our long days of training in Kentucky—Michael’s mind remained on the work, his passion and excitement never ceased. I’ll never forget one evening after a full day of training. We decided to unwind and went to a local bar. Michael’s enthusiasm for the job shone through. We were both so excited about the opportunities ahead that we couldn’t help but share our excitement with everyone we encountered. Michael, in his natural, genuine way, connected effortlessly with the people around him, drawing them in with his warmth and sincerity. His ability to connect with people, both personally and professionally, was something I admired and will never forget.” — Garvey Alexander

In honor of Michael’s legacy, a GoFundMe page has been established to support his family during this difficult time. We invite you to contribute and help Alex, Jeremiah, and Eva as they navigate through their grief and loss.

Additionally, the Orange County USBG chapter is in the early stages of organizing a fundraising gala for Michael’s family (Alexandria, Jeremiah, and Eva), what we have locked in currently is the date of Monday February 24th, and location which will Mrs. Knott’s Chicken Dinner Restaurant, Michael bartended there for many, many years and is a beloved member of the Knott’s team!

Michael Montez will forever be remembered for his kindness, his infectious smile, and his unwavering dedication to his family and friends. Though he may be gone, his spirit lives on in the countless lives he touched. Rest in peace, dear Michael, and may your light continue to shine brightly in our hearts.